On Procrastination, Death & A Massively Impactful Life
You know what’s really sad?
People like Michael Jackson, Muhammad Ali and Mother Theresa.
No, I’m not bringing the hate. It’s just that… there’s so few of them. Highly accomplished and recognized people who started with nothing. They went for gigantic dreams through numerous challenges.
Have you ever dreamt of creating an amazing legacy? Admit it. You have. Even for a brief moment. What would accomplishing that feel like for you? Why aren’t you already pursuing your dreams? Your life, your work would be such an inspiration to thousands, even millions of people!
I know why.
Because, even though you may not admit it, you’re terrified. That awkward ball of snot called Fear is stopping you. It comes in many disgusting flavors.
In this article, I’m going to tell you a number of common fears that cause procrastination, so that you can kill the ones holding you back.
Procrastination is a thief. A parasite. It sucks valuable things like self-worth, productivity, time, happiness and life from your soul. If you have even a tiny, itsy, bitsy, ounce of self-respect, then reading this should piss you off.
I want you to live boldly and courageously. To pursue your highest ambitions, succeed & help others do the same. Tony Robbins says the secret to happiness is growth and contribution. Now, THAT’s what I call making the world a better place.
Let’s bring out some of the annoying skeletons from your closet.
Fear of Failure & Perfectionism
Do you feel that unless you perform perfectly that you’re flawed and inadequate? You may unknowingly be a perfectionist, because you wanna be so good that you can’t ever be judged as imperfect and unlovable.
Your self-worth is tied to your ability and performance, meaning “if you don’t produce perfect results, you’re not worth much”. Yikes! Of course that will make you procrastinate! I mean, “what if I give it my all only to fall flat on my face?! What will people say about me when they see me fail?! Oh, the terror!”.
Fear of Success
Can you relate?
It is our light not our darkness that most frightens us
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light not our darkness that most frightens us.
We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous,
talented and fabulous?
Actually, who are you not to be?…”
(By Marianne Williamson)
At the core, you believe that you have to choose between success and love. You sabotage your own success. “What?! I wanna succeed! Look at all the effort I’m making”, you say. If you reach success, then you believe painful consequences will follow. Because,
- That might make people jealous of you.
- You might drift away from your family or spouse.
- You may have to give up on your current friends.
- You could hurt someone.
- You might have to become someone else.
- You might be “too perfect” and scare people away.
- You feel unworthy of success (very low self-esteem).
- You’ve done bad things in life and now you’re punishing yourself for it.
- Someone might attack you in some way if you …read more
Source: Steven Aitchison